tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-17086200.post382787338244881320..comments2023-05-09T06:25:09.038-07:00Comments on Snarled Yarns: The BakersSnarled Yarnshttp://www.blogger.com/profile/04511078071748862035noreply@blogger.comBlogger1125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-17086200.post-31355797163112833022007-10-07T18:58:00.000-07:002007-10-07T18:58:00.000-07:00it took this marriage (#3) to realize the best way...it took this marriage (#3) to realize the best way to deal with a man is to be myself. not mold myself to fit his ideals. at this age (oy), if i don't fit your ideal, too bad. love me for me, and not what you think i should be. if i change, it's because i want to, and not just because you want me to. <BR/><BR/>and that goes for men as well. mark has quit smoking, and has cut way back on his drinking, and while i did desire those things, i knew that he would have to want it. i did tell him what i wanted, but i let him make that decision. makes for a more comfortable relationshipdragon knitterhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15876200889552460658noreply@blogger.com